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June 7, 2007

Coming this fall…

Filed under: Babies, Family, Life — Joe Carey @ 3:45 pm

My wife and I went to the perinatal specialist today for a sonogram.  The babies are healthy, 14 ounces each, and are opposite genders.  Baby A is now officially River Jack Carey, and Baby B is now officially Scarlett Hope Carey.  They will be born in October.  I can’t wait to see them!  It was exciting seeing their brains and spines and femurs and ribs and feet and hands and everything on the sonogram screen.  They are both so perfect.

I will be posting the new sonogram pictures on Flickr tonight.  Watch this space!

May 30, 2007

Where does life lead?

Filed under: Family, Life — Joe Carey @ 4:45 pm

My children,

For many years now my focus has been on money.  That is because I had none.  And that is because I am white trash.  All of my ancestors as far back as I can track have been white trash.  Well, I haven’t really tried, but it seems like it.  Anyway, I want you to know why.  It’s not because money is the most important thing in the world.  It is not.  I don’t love money.  I am not going to forsake all other pursuits in order to make as much money as I can.  I will probably never be a billionaire, and I am fine with that.  You can do anything you want.  We live in a free country with great infrastructure and mobility which facilitates almost any direction one chooses for their life.  The problem is, when you’re so poor that you can barely afford to survive, you can’t take advantage of that freedom.  You’re free on paper but in reality you are chained to the grindstone.  True freedom requires capital.  That is why so many free people are trapped in a substandard existence in this country.  And that is why I am working so hard right now, why I have been so focused on money.

I’m doing this so that you don’t have to.  When you go to college, you won’t have to work full time too.  Focus on college.  And have fun.  Whether you decide to be a businessman or a musician, that is fine with me.  I hope you will let me teach you to manage your money, and provide for yourself.  But after that, you can be a writer, or a manager, or travel the world with a backpack.  Whatever you choose for yourself.  You should know that I love you no matter what, and that I’ve got your back.   I want you to live the life that you find satisfying, and never worry about the trite, insignificant, or menial things.  Let the details take care of the details.

May 24, 2007

Life begins at thirty.

Filed under: Career, College, Life — Joe Carey @ 2:25 pm

Twenty nine. Whoever said that life begins at thirty was absolutely right. I remember when I was about twelve, I was afraid of getting older because I knew that it meant more responsibility. When I was sixteen, I wanted to leave my parents’ house, but I knew that I wasn’t ready. By the time I was twenty, I was making money and saving money and making plans, but also starting to fishtail in life as people in their twenties do. I needed to make a change, a start, to grab hold of the reigns of responsibility for my own life. I finally did that when I was twenty three, I picked up and moved to Texas to prove that I could make it on my own. That worked out wonderfully. I love Texas.

I decided to start going to college, but ultimately decided to wait a year to qualify for in-state tuition rates. After a semester in a community college in Abilene, I transferred to the University of Texas in Arlington and moved to Dallas where a girl I had met lived. By then I was twenty five. I have maintained full-time hours at UTA and since married that girl who lived in Dallas. Now we both live in Irving with her daughter and twins on the way, and I am in a five-year program at UTA that will simultaneously earn me a BS in Accounting and an MS in Accounting. I will be finished with that program in one year.

I have been working full time while going to college as well. So I’ve been busy. But next year, when I’m done with school and get a real job, I can quit the dead end job. So when I turn thirty, I’ll have one job with fairly regular hours, two babies, a lovely wife, and a twelve year old step daughter who hopefully isn’t worrying about responsibility yet.

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